Find your formula for love together!
Your love story is so much stronger when you learn what makes each of you ignite with passion and joy! We at Enneagram & Marriage use research-based tools to bring fun, joy, and a deep and beautiful spark into your relationship!
Get Christa’s best-selling book right now, too!!
The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing is on sale at all major retailers Amazon via paperback, audiobook, Kindle, and more! Christa covers each type, pairing, and both general and personality-based conflict and communication tips, as well as tips for each of the 45 pairing!
BONUS OFFER: If you send your receipt to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com, you can also get the free digital BONUS chapter on sexual intimacy and the Enneagram!
Have you been frustrated by a partnership where:
Communication is poor?
You can’t get actual traction on goals set?
You no longer find one another’s differences endearing or cute?
Marriage counseling has only made things worse?
You’ve lost the ability to desire to sexually attract one another?
You’ve stopped having fun together or in family or group settings?
At Enneagram & Marriage, we’ll help YOUR relationship to thrive like never before!
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Learn Your Types
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Get Growth Tips
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Shine Together!
Our Offerings
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Listen to the Pod!
Christa has over 300 episodes, and over a million downloads on the Enneagram & Marriage Podcast. You can listen to it here on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen to pods!
She has hosted Enneagram experts such as Bea Chestnut, Suzanne Stabile, and many marriage experts across the field, along with her own expert episodes where she walks you through many Enneagram & Marriage lessons together!
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Find an E + M Coach
Our E + M certified coaches work over Zoom or phone (or locally in some cases) and we’re so excited to partner with you on your individual or couple’s journey to healing.
Each of our coaches has walked through a 24-hour video training, almost a thousand pages of material and a certification essay to ensure that they are fully trained and ready for you!
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Get Your Pairing Guide!
Christa and artist Alaina Pompa teamed up to create Glow guides - ways each of the 45 Enneagram type pairings works together.
We have date night tips, solutions for everyday conflicts, sexual tips, tips for your nuances in serving and self care as well as instincts, wings, and so much more!
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Read My Best-Selling Book!
Join us in the pages of the best selling new E + M book, written by founder Christa Hardin, MA. The book, “The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing,” is available in paperback, on Audible, or Kindle right here!
Christa walks you through each type and pairing together across every season of relationship and helps you to heal emotional wounds together as you find and re-find your ways of shining together!
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Plan Week-By-Week!
It’s one thing to learn your type and quite another to walk through learning more together about yourselves and your pairing across an entire year. Join Christa in the pages of your 52 Week Glow Planner right here!
We walk you through your triads, not just your types, here as well as instincts, conflict groups, intelligence centers, and SO may marriage topics across the months: sex, finances, communication and more!
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Become a E+M Coach!
It’s wonderful to get coaching but what if you’re ready to give back and/or to start your own career even while you continually learn steps to balance.
Join Christa for this on-demand 24 hour video training amidst many practical forms and reading modules integrating the best of couples therapy and Enneagram care for relationships.
Christa also trains her team on monthly Zoom calls an coaches get a free Collective membership as well!
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The E + M Collective
Our membership opens up quarterly to new members and is a safe and private space individuals and couples can learn more about marriage care from an insider’s view. Christa meets monthly to offer trainings and coaching tips, has a special insider’s video course with PDFS, gives this group freebies early, and has special podcasts weekly just for them, as well as a free FB group. Get on the waitlist here!!
I started Enneagram & Marriage because I know that you want to have an incredibly fulfilling relationship together again or for the very first time. To do that, you need to have a deeply understanding connection and find your true and best chemistry together.
The problem is, couples don’t always know what makes them thrive emotionally especially since life gets so busy. This can make you feel lost and scared - like you won’t survive these long years.
When you understand one another’s deeper core issues as well as begin to more fully appreciate one another’s personality and begin to balance your gifts together, it helps so much. Yet we understand how impossible it feels to do this with any order and consistency on your own, especially when you’re feeling down and out.
Enter all of the Enneagram & Marriage offerings!
Here’s how we’ll do this together: 1. First, you learn your more about what makes your type feel safe and happy with our E + M typing guide 2. You learn what makes your partner feel happy and safe 3. Using our tools, you find your love together and find balance in personal time, sexual time, and social time together!
So, get started by learning your personality types for free right here. If you already know your type, don’t worry, this will be a very important look at core relationship needs.
In the meantime, take comfort in knowing you came to the right place! You can stop fretting that your love will never bloom again, and instead plan for true love to flourish!
Testimonials
"Over the years of work with Christa, we’ve learned what makes the other person “tick,” how to have more compassion, and how to satisfy our spouse’s love language. Marriage is hard, and it’s a tremendous blessing to have help!"
- Andrea (Type 1)
"I just have to tell my people about you because you're the best! I'm forever grateful to you and the influence you are having on our family! I cannot get over how much enneagram-based counseling is so helpful!"
- Faith (Type 8)
"Christa’s guidance helped us to rebuild, renew and recapture our goals for ourselves and one another. This was, and always will be, one of the greatest moments in our young, but promising, marriage. Thank you, Christa!"
- Kortney (Type 2)
In The Enneagram in Marriage, you will learn to:
better understand your partner's emotions and reactions
extend more grace to your partner and yourself
have more productive conversations that foster connection
build a lasting legacy together with intention!
Each chapter concludes with three sections that aim to lead readers into a practical engagement with the materials, including tips to think through, questions to spark conversation, and assignments for partners to complete. Read it here!
Want to Grow with a Guide? Come With Me!
The Enneagram In Marriage: A 5 Week Course
Walk through the pages of my book and your love story together in five short videos. I’ve also included simple but profound questions you can ask one another for maximum learning in your included course workbook.
The Enneagram in Marriage is a program designed to help you establish a solid relationship foundation while supporting day-to-day habits together too, as you truly find your glow together.
If you’re ready to learn how to implement practical and creative tools you’ll actually use and you don’t want to keep putting it off — I’m so ready for you!