After the honeymoon season of a relationship, couples often wane in their love. It’s time to bring the light of your love back in!
Find your love together again or for the very first time.
What Type Are You?
First things first, get to know yourself a little better! Find out how the Enneagram System of Personality Types can be a simple and very useful tool for understanding what makes you tick.
In this FREE GUIDE you will learn which of the Nine Basic Personality Types you identify with the most, and then get some quick tips on how to maximize your unique strengths and avoid some of the most common mistakes your type makes in relationships!
What are you waiting for? Click below and get started on the E+M Journey to Happily Ever After!
Marriage Coaching
EVERY COUPLE needs some encouragement at some point. How about you? Would you like to receive professional marriage coaching from Christa or one of the Licensed Mental Health Counselors or Coaches on the E+M team? Christa and her team have helped literally thousands of couples over the last 20 years to find their happily ever after. We would love to help you too! We offer both virtual and in-office services and a variety of coaching packages. Click below and start growing in your marriage today!
Get Your Glow On!
While you are each two people shining with your own unique lights, when you combine your partner’s personality type with yours, you create a unique and beautiful new GLOW together!
We created custom-made Enneagram Glow Pairing Guides to help you unlock the secret superpowers of your particular personality pairing. There’s one for every possible combination!
Helpful tips on loving your person well based on their type
Special date night ideas and tips tailored to your types
How to stoke the fires of sexual intimacy for your types
Get vital insights to thriving through conflict for your types
Couple's Journal with inspiring questions to answer together.
Ready to Dive Deeper?
Now that you know your unique Enneagram number, it’s time to take a Deeper Dive into how your personality type influences your relationships:
Discover your type’s Passions, Virtues, and Defense Mechanisms
Get to know your type’s Wings, Instincts, and Enneagram Arrows
Learn how to Unlock Resentment and Repair Relationships with this personality type
See what this type’s deepest desires are for marriage in each of the major seasons of life
If you grab your guide right now, you can get one FREE for your honey with our hot BOGO Summer Sale! Use code “BOGO” at checkout!
Now You Can Glow All Year!
The Enneagram Glow Planner is custom-designed to give you and your spouse 52 weeks worth of teaching, tips, and encouragement guaranteed to help you GROW and GLOW in your marriage ALL YEAR LONG!
Monthly Themes from Fitness to Finances to Fun in the Bedroom, and Everything In-between!
Weekly Date Night Reminders with Fun Date Ideas!
Encouragement for Planning Self-Care and Balancing Your Instincts with Your Partner’s
And Much More!!!
Purchase the planner by itself, or get one FREE if you sign up for the E+M Relationship Coaching Month-to-Month Plan.
"Christa’s guidance helped us to rebuild, renew and recapture our goals for ourselves and one another. This was, and always will be, one of the greatest moments in our young, but promising, marriage. Thank you, Christa!"
- Kortney (Type 2)
"I just have to tell my people about you because you're the best! I'm forever grateful to you and the influence you are having on our family! I cannot get over how much enneagram-based counseling is so so helpful!"
- Faith (Type 9)
"Over the years of work with Christa, we have learned what makes the other person “tick,” how to have more compassion, and how to satisfy our spouses love languages. Marriage is hard, and it’s been a tremendous blessing to have a little help!"
- Andrea (Type 1)
The Enneagram + Marriage Podcast
With over 1,400,000 unique downloads of over 400 episodes, there’s no doubt we’re making a real difference to strengthen marriages and save families! Listen as Christa teams up with authors, musicians, and other influencers to help YOU find YOUR happily ever after!
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New Book Release!
In her highly-anticipated new book, Christa combines her master’s level expertise in psychology with over 20 years’ experience in marriage counseling and coaching to explore all the amazing ways the Enneagram can be used to help couples to thrive in marriage! Available in digital, hardcopy, or audiobook wherever books are sold!
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Coach Certification
Would you like to help couples to have more love, passion, and fun in their marriage? Sign up for our E + M Coaches Certification Course, where Christa will teach you everything you need to know about using the Enneagram in marriage and relationship coaching. Get certified…and start saving marriages!
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New E+M Merch!
GET YOUR GLOW ON as you sip, shop, or simply bask in the comfort of your own home while reading my new book or listening to your favorite E & M pod episodes! We’ve got new mugs, tees, sweatshirts, stickers, and more available for purchase through Teepublic with easy and direct shipping! Great gift idea!!!
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E+M Freebies
Did you say FREE? Get free and fun resources for your relationship right here! Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or highly-experienced and just looking for more education and encouragement, there is a gold mine of articles, worksheets, booklets and more right here for the taking! And did I mention it’s all FREE?
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Enneagram 101
Brand new to the Enneagram? Here’s where you can get a proper introduction and learn the basics about the history of the Enneagram and some of the reasons why it has become such an increasingly popular tool for counseling and coaching in marriage, parenting, business, ministry, and so many other areas of everyday life!
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The E + M Podcast
Over 1.2 Million downloads and hundreds of episodes to help you grow and glow in your marriage! Listen in as Christa interviews popular authors, researchers, scientists, musicians, and other influencers to explore the many ways the Enneagram can be used to help all couples to thrive! Available on iTunes and Spotify.
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Marriage Coaching
Christa knows about using the Enneagram in marriage, she literally wrote the book on it! Would you like to receive marriage coaching from Christa or one of the licensed counselors, therapists, or coaches on her team? We offer both virtual and in-person services. Click below to get the help you need today!
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Step 1: Get Your Type
Quickly discover your unique Enneagram personality type and get started on the Enneagram + Marriage Journey! In this FREE GUIDE you will learn which of the nine basic types you identify with the most, how to maximize your unique strengths, and avoid the most common mistakes your type makes in relationships!
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Step 2: Dive Deeper
Now that you know your unique Enneagram type, it’s time to DIVE DEEPER to discover your number’s typical passions, virtues, weaknesses, fixations, and defense mechanisms. Learn about the Enneagram arrows, wings, subtypes, tri-types, instincts, and how they are each directly impacting your relationships every day!
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Step 3: Glow Together
When you combine your partner’s Enneagram type with yours, you create a unique and beautiful new GLOW together! There’s a Glow Guide for each personality pairing, packed with priceless practical advice for date nights, intimacy, gift-giving, resolving conflict, and loving each other well based on your types!
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Step 4: Glow All Year
Now you get to apply all you’ve learned as Christa guides you along a 52-week journey guaranteed to help you grow and glow in your marriage all year long! This beautifully-illustrated 217 page Enneagram Glow Planner is FREE for all who sign up for the E+M month-to-month coaching package!
