Compatibility Across Head, Heart, and Body Triads
Kissing under the mistletoe may be the absolute farthest thing in your mind right now with all you've got to do, and most especially far from your mind right now if you and your spouse are clashing.
You're not alone if you are, by the way!
It's our nature that some of us read the world through nurture and emotions, others of us want to make sure our people are safe above all, and many of us want to make sure we're doing the right and best thing.
Holidays or not, so many couples are missing the love they could be bringing together because of their well-meant intelligence centers clashing!
- Some couples can be way too emotional together (two heart types, for instance)
- Some are way too prone to negative thinking (two head types)
- And some always clash in the area of who is more "right." (two body types)
And if you're in different intelligence centers, there are clashes between emotions and body, thinking and heart, and such!
Sound familiar? We're covering this on this mini-pod for that reason.
No judgment, no shame, just learning and growing together, one intentional step at a time.
Where the critical question does matter however is...
What are you going to do about these clashes?
Are you going to allow for impulsive decisions (which are not rewarded in life)?
Are you going to give up and start over with someone (who will one day also irritate you in different ways)?
Or are you going to get to work learning to work with other people right in your home and family and find a way to love your person just as they (and you!) are?