Don't let unforgiveness keep you from your life!
I get it if you are both savoring time with your family and friends, but also sorrowful about someone or something else as we begin the holiday season together.
I get it if you both love being with your spouse but also struggle connecting with someone in your community.
And I also get it that sorrow can take an angry turn, a turn toward fear and trauma, and even a turn toward hatred and vengeance when unresolved conflicts linger.
If they wouldn't have made life so hard for me…
If I had been able to choose differently…
If they would only see it from my perspective…
All of these conflicted feelings are very real and make you human, rest assured.
Yet across time, letting these kind of thoughts linger unprocessed lock you up from actual joy and purposes of your life as we discuss here on today's mini-pod.
These resentments can create bondage, addiction, and far worse problems if you leave them unaddressed - and they may even contain leftover unprocessed trauma behaviors from generations prior to you so I get it if it feels overwhelming.
This pod addresses these attachment wounds in a gentle and encouraging but wise manner, as we walk through the careful but necessary steps to forgiveness.
Let me walk you through to the much-needed release from stressful baggage-carrying to healing your body, mind, and heart today.
Why? True happiness comes from loving, from serving, and from doing your work to let healing come into your wounds in the here and now.
And you can't do this as well if you're all locked up!
As you move into healthy rhythms and schedules today, I encourage you to listen to this episode.
Set your intention and let go of sitting in the judgment seat of God - and truly missing your life.
Make your moves, yes. Set your boundaries so you can feel safe. And then…live well!
I'm using the rubric from the pages of my new book, The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing to do this right here with you in this all-new episode just for you!
