Essential Conflict Goals for Every Enneagram Type with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, One Extraordinary Marriage
Sometimes when Monday comes, it’s easier to compartmentalize the harder stuff in your relationships.
But if you just stuff it down when your key relationship is missing harmony, trust me - as much as you think you've succeeded, our bodies, brains, and hearts do indeed keep a deeper score...
Yes, attachment is everything, so whether you know it or not, if you're not at peace with your people, you'll bring your emotional wound - your vice - right in!
Whether you get stuck in the Type One space seething with burning resentment, a Type Two space dealing with pride and inflation of ego, or a Seven space of overdoing and gluttony, when you’re in a state of low awareness, (and we take a brief tour of all of the types' vices on the must-listen pod), the MUCH NEEDED repair and reconnection is lost.
Conflict MUST be dealt with directly or it comes out sideways.
Why?
As you saw above, humans weren’t made to be alone and disconnected, plain and simple.
On the pod, I’m delighted we can be joined by the #1 marriage podcasters, The One Extraordinary Marriage hosts, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo!!
But why am I nerding out about them in particular? Today they've actually MAPPED out conflict cycles so we can see what happens to throw us off track and so we can strategically work and not bring those Enneagram vices in to self-protect - and they tell us all about it.
Excitingly, we also get to do something very unusual on the show, too!
We get to see the first visual peep of their book right on the show since they got their first physical copy of the book DURING our interview, which brought added joy!
This called for a video version of the pod to go along with our regular version! Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube page to see more as we build this fun visual page up together also, slowly but surely!
