Attachment in Marriage: Breaches in Head, Heart, and Body Types

Attachment breaches hurt. Yes, even mid-week when you're otherwise busy with kids and life and work.


When you stop to pause with me here for a minute, you know this to be true. Busy as you are, when there's a broken space for you and your family member or spouse, it hurts.


Some of the wounds are generational, to be sure, while others are born out of sheer vice.


But many times, our wounds are from seeing the world differently, and if you took the time to really look at that, you'd find yourself back to more love and less ongoing narratives of hurt.


Today's mini-episode aims to help you to do just that as we walk through healthy attachment and how the heart types feel it, how the head types think through it, and how the body types experience it.


When you know these differences, you can bring different narratives in your relationships. In your marriage, you begin telling truer narratives, such as, "My spouse isn't trying to be disagreeable, they just don't feel safe."


Or, "My child isn't trying to be willful, but they have a huge sense of justice, or maybe they don't feel loved even though I know I love them."


If you're walking through relationship hurts with anyone, I promise you, today's brief episode is for you!


We're going to dive in even deeper on Monday, too, when we share our big news!


Your attachment is everything and I'm here for it all with you.


Your unique gifts are needed out there as you find your way back to love!


Love living intentionally with you, 

Christa


PS. Listen here on Apple or Spotify here! Watch the mini-episode here on YouTube!