Loving Each Type Even When It's Scary!

I hope you're ready for more growth with me today as we stay in the relationship game and share tools together today on this pod!


As you know, when we are relaxed and our window of tolerance is open, it's a MUCH easier time to grow than when we're jarred and dysregulated by some of our spouse and family's scary or strange behaviors...


And although they of course likely don't intend to scare you this week of Halloween (or Spooky Szn, if you prefer), the truth is, sometimes others' ways of surviving are JUST so antithetical to our own that we struggle to find common ground, respect, or most importantly, charity - love.


We also struggle with a deep fear for our own survival if we take their road less traveled...


This pod just for you is a reminder of some steps you can take to do just that - love your partner or family member of each and every type uniquely without losing yourself.



Yes, as you love, you can and MUST set your important boundaries for your own regulation - you can indeed do both so you don't land in the fight or flight response as you love, and as I know we have all seen many others do, or have perhaps done ourselves in the past.


We begin our type-by-type pod with a treat for type Nines getting to go first, per listener request!!


Also, for a fun side note, you can also enjoy hearing about how I had to avoid dysregulation by setting my own boundaries with my hubby's advice on my character from The Office the family costumes this year!

 

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